"Will You Go Out With Me"

I think it's a pretty fucking weird thing to say since you do the exact opposite.

I've been asked out by 5 guys, and all of them have used this phrase. In response to one of them, I asked "But where are we going?"

He didn't understand, but really. why "will you go out with me"? Teenagers do the opposite. They say "We're going out" but they've never been on a date. They just do physcial stuff and see each other at school or at their houses.
It's just really stupid. Once you're "going out" with someone, you are automatically their girlfriend/boyriend. It's not "Lets see how things go" but "Were now a couple."
Even if someone hasn't done a single thing with the person, they say "I'm breaking up with you"
Like Molly*, she "went out" with one of my friends.
But did she really? I mean, he asked her out, and she said "I guess".
Then literally a day later, without having seeing him, she calls him up and say's "I don't want to go out with you anymore" It may seem mean, but if you knew the guy, it's not.
Back to my point. When she responds to the myspace surveys, and they ask if she's ever broke up with someone, she answers yes.
Yet if they ask her if she's ever had a boyfriend, she says no.
Would you guys consider this a "break up" cuz I just consider it her changing her mind.
You tell me.